When it comes to gym sessions, men working out with their friends has always been the norm. But lately, social media has been buzzing with curious (and sometimes ridiculous) questions about the relationships between workout buddies. The latest target? Personal trainer John Gaines, known not only for his chiseled physique but also as the ex-boyfriend of Grammy Award-winning artist Victoria Monét. The current speculation centers on whether Gaines’s recent workout video with R&B singer Tank has stirred up rumors about his sexuality.
The Video that Sparked the Rumors
Gaines, a fitness coach who regularly shares workout clips on social media, posted a lighthearted, 20-second video with Tank. In the clip, Tank playfully pushes Gaines aside to show off his own flex for the camera. Although it seemed like an ordinary moment between two friends, the video quickly went viral on X (formerly Twitter), with some people making bold—and unfounded—speculations.
“Ok, so this is why Victoria left, nuff said,” reads one post, which racked up over 30,000 likes. The comment section has become a storm of homophobic remarks and unfounded assumptions. For many, this speculation felt especially strange considering that Monét herself is openly bisexual. Still, some fans seem intent on finding hidden reasons behind Gaines and Monét’s recent split, despite the couple’s mutual explanation.
Breaking Down the Breakup: Gaines and Monét’s Public Statement
After years of keeping their relationship private, Monét announced her pregnancy with Gaines in 2020, and the two welcomed a daughter, Hazel, now three years old. This September, they publicly confirmed their breakup, explaining they’d actually separated about 10 months prior. In a joint statement, Gaines and Monét said, “There was no infidelity, toxic behavior or drama. We both just have some fundamental growing to do that would best be done apart so we can remain the best versions of ourselves for our daughter.”
Their straightforward statement didn’t stop people from speculating. For those questioning Gaines’s sexuality, it’s important to remember that the end of a relationship doesn’t automatically imply hidden drama or secret revelations. The focus, they emphasized, is on their journey to personal growth and co-parenting their daughter.
Addressing the Bigger Picture: Toxic Masculinity and Homophobia in Gym Culture
Unfortunately, the discourse around Gaines and Tank’s gym video taps into a larger cultural issue—one where homophobic stereotypes and toxic masculinity fuel baseless assumptions. When two men are seen working out together, sharing a close bond, or even just flexing for a video, it can trigger judgment from those who can’t imagine men bonding in a way that’s simply about camaraderie.
Is it gay to work out with your bro? Of course not. The gym is a place to support each other’s goals, grow stronger, and build confidence—something many gym-goers, regardless of gender, understand deeply.
Conclusion: Let’s Celebrate Fitness, Not Speculate on Sexuality
At the end of the day, Gaines’s journey as a trainer and his friendships are what matter, not the baseless rumors around them. As we navigate through social media, let’s remember that not every interaction requires analysis or speculation. Instead, let’s celebrate people’s efforts to prioritize fitness, embrace camaraderie, and share uplifting moments with others.
And, John, keep those gym videos coming! Your followers love them, and for all the right reasons.
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